Prohibition of Reading Someone Else’s Writing or Letters - And How It Relates to Today’s Digital Resources Introduction Among the refined etiquettes taught in Islam is respect for others' privacy. This includes refraining from reading another person’s writings, letters, or personal notes without their permission. Scholars have discussed this issue extensively, drawing evidence from hadith, the practice of the Salaf, and juristic principles. Foundational Evidence from the Hadith The foundation for this etiquette is based on the narration attributed to the Prophet ﷺ: “Whoever looks into his brother’s writing without his permission is as though he is looking into Hellfire.” This narration has been reported from Ibn ʿAbbās (رضي الله عنهما) through various chains. However, scholars of hadith have classified it as weak (ḍaʿīf). Abu Dawud stated that all its routes are weak, Abu Hatim described it as munkar, and Ibn Hajar and al-Albani also declared its chain weak. Despite its weaknesses,...
A long time ago, a Persian merchant received a beautiful parrot as a gift from his Indian business partners. He placed the parrot in a large cage, where he could admire her and listen to her sweet song each day after his long work hours. The time came for the merchant’s usual trip to India, and like always, he asked his servants what they would like him to bring back. Each person asked for something they truly wanted, and the little parrot was no different.
“My dear master, there’s nothing I want from my homeland,” the parrot said sadly. “But, if you happen to see a group of parrots like me, could you please pass on my greetings? Tell them I’m stuck in a cage in Persia, and I miss them so much. Ask them if they think it’s fair that they fly freely while I’m here, trapped. Please, ask them for advice on how I should deal with my situation.”
The merchant didn’t think much of the parrot’s request but promised to deliver her message. Once in India, he focused on his work but made sure to keep his promise. While traveling through a forest one day, he saw a group of parrots and stopped to give them the parrot’s message. But as soon as he finished speaking, one of the parrots started to shake and fell from its perch, dead.
The merchant rushed over, but it was clear the bird was gone. He felt terrible, wondering if the parrot had died from hearing about his trapped cousin. He couldn’t help but think that his words had somehow caused the poor bird’s death. Was it possible that the bird died from grief? After all, isn’t the human tongue like a hard stone that, when struck, can start a fire?
The merchant regretted repeating the parrot’s message, but there was nothing he could do now. He continued with his business and eventually returned home.
When he arrived, he gave his servants the gifts they’d asked for but didn’t say anything to the parrot. The bird, eager to know the answer, couldn’t wait any longer and asked, “So, what did the parrots say? Where’s my gift?”
“I’d rather not talk about it,” the merchant replied sadly.
“Why, master? What’s wrong?”
“I told the parrots your story,” he said hesitantly. “But before I could finish, one of them started to shake, then fell and died. I’ll never forgive myself for causing that poor bird’s death. But what’s done is done. Once an arrow leaves the bow, it can never return, and once words are spoken, they can never be taken back.”
Before the merchant could finish speaking, the parrot fell from her perch and dropped dead on the floor of her cage. The merchant couldn’t believe his eyes. He quickly began to cry, blaming himself for another death. He paced around, confused and upset, unsure of why this was happening. He gently stroked the bird’s feathers, remembering how much joy her song had brought him.
After a while, the merchant opened the cage door, carefully picked up the bird, and took her to the garden. As he dug a grave to bury her, the parrot suddenly flew up and perched on a tree branch, looking perfectly fine.
The merchant was shocked. “My dear bird, I’m so happy to see you’re alive! But tell me, what happened? What did I say that caused you to fall like your cousin in India? What’s your secret?”
The parrot smiled and said, “That bird wasn’t my relative, but his actions showed me how to free myself. Without saying a word, he taught me that my imprisonment was because of my beautiful song, my talent for entertaining you. My voice, which I cherished so much, was the very thing that kept me trapped. He taught me that true freedom comes when you let go of attachment to your talents. I had to stop holding on to what I loved the most.”
With that, the parrot bade the merchant farewell and flew away, disappearing from sight forever.
Here are three lessons for the corporate world, inspired by This story:
1. Don’t Let Your Strengths Become Your Prison
In the story, the parrot’s beautiful voice, which she once adored, ended up being the very thing that kept her captive. This is something we all need to think about in our professional lives. Sure, it’s great to have talents that set you apart, but the moment you become too reliant on them is the moment they can start holding you back. In the corporate world, being known for one thing can quickly become a double-edged sword. It’s easy to get stuck in a box, just like that parrot, where the very thing you’re proud of becomes the reason you’re confined. So, keep evolving, keep learning, and don’t let your best skill turn into your biggest limitation.
2. Choose Your Words Carefully
The merchant, trying to be thoughtful, unknowingly set off a chain of events that led to the parrot’s death. The power of words is undeniable. One careless remark or offhand comment can spiral into something bigger than intended. In the workplace, this couldn’t be truer. The way you phrase things—whether in meetings, emails, or casual chats—can impact relationships, reputations, and even opportunities. Think before you speak. The best leaders know how to communicate clearly and with intention. A single misstep in conversation can have ripple effects, so be mindful of what you're saying and how it might be perceived.
3. Let Go to Move Forward
When the parrot realizes her attachment to her song was what kept her in the cage, it’s a wake-up call. It’s a reminder that attachment to the familiar can keep us stuck in places we outgrow. In business and life, we often hold on to old strategies, comfortable roles, or routines because we feel safe. But real progress doesn’t happen when you’re holding on to the past. It comes when you’re willing to let go of what’s no longer serving you. Sometimes that means moving away from what has worked before to make room for something new. Embrace change, even if it’s uncomfortable. That’s where growth happens.
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